Saturday, January 06, 2018

A brief update

Hi All,

I will probably be away from the Blogosphere for the next week or so for a few reasons.

Firstly, we moved house yesterday- well, we moved the bulk of the stuff.  We have been moving bits and pieces since the 16th December but yesterday we hired a van and moved a lot of stuff and since the beds and the suchlike are over there- we slept our first night there last night and will do onwards.  I won't be able to post as the internet is not beginning there until the 15th January.

We were both really knackered but thankful for the help from CBC's old housemate and his brother and fell asleep, after putting on a duvet cover and pillowcases, in our new bed. 

Unfortunately, we woke to the worst news this morning.  The wonderful WOMOTM, CBC's Dad, died this morning.  He has been deteriorating in health over the past few years with a degenerative lung condition and was taken into hospital this week but he deteriorated on Thursday. The pair of us are wishing that we had gone up now, CBC, of course, especially.   He phoned me this morning saying that he needed to go up there but his Dad died in the meantime.  He has now gone up on the train to join his Mum and sister.  I'm here packing up some more things. It's such rotten timing with moving- if we hadn't been, he might have been able to get up there in time to see him.  It is hard to believe that this wonderful man is no longer with us.  My heart is full of pity for CBC and mourning for this humble man and many regrets for times missed.  I expect we will be up there for his funeral soon.

I hope all is well with you.
xx

33 comments:

  1. Hugs to you both
    Julie

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  2. So sorry to hear your sad news. Thinking about you and CBC, and looking forward to when you return to blogging, whenever that may be.

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  3. I'm so sorry to hear your news.... and at what should be such an exciting time for you both. Love to everyone, Jx

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  4. So sorry to read this. Love and prayers for you all - especially C and his Mum. xxx

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  5. Kezzie I am so sorry to read of the news of your dad in law's passing, such a difficult time for you all. It is really hard when you don't live nearby your family especially at times like this. We are only an hour and a half from our family and feel it when a relative is taken ill, so goodness knows how you both must be feeling.

    I will keep you all in prayers and look forward to catching up with you in the blogosphere once things settle down at your end xxx

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  6. I am so sorry for your loss, dear Kezzie. Prayers for you both.

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  7. Oh dear Kezzie, I'm so sorry about the sad news and the bad timing and I hope he didn't had to suffer much in the end. I'm sure he would have been so happy for both of you to have finally found a home to call your own. Warm hugs, love and prayers to you and CBC and the family.
    ❤️ Julia

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  8. So sorry for your news and hope you're OK. We will be praying for you here!

    https://lizziedailyblog.blogspot.co.uk/

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  9. I'm so sorry for your loss, Kezzie. Hang in there!

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  10. I am so sorry for your loss. Much love to you all.

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  11. So sorry for you loss Kezzie, thinking of you and your family.

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  12. I am so, so sorry for your loss. If you happen to read this please pass on my condolences to CBC. You are both in my thoughts.

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  13. I'm sorry for your loss, sending good thoughts your way xx

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  14. Oh Kezzie, what sad news, sending you lots of love xxx

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  15. I'm so sorry for your loss, Kezzie. Please pass my condolences to CBC. Thinking of you! xxx

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  16. I'm saddened by the news of this big loss. My condolences to CBC and family. I also wish the best on your move during this very difficult time. Hugs.

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  17. What sad news. However expected these things are, they still come as a shock...and, of course, the feeling that "I should have gone..." makes it more difficult. Love and prayers for you, CBC and all the family. May God hold you all in the palm of his hand.

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  18. I'm so sorry to read this. Much love. X

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  19. I'm so sorry to hear this Kezzie. My thoughts are with you both.
    Sending hugs and positive vibes
    Hxx

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  20. Much love, and many prayers, Kezzie x

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  21. Anonymous7:52 pm

    Oh, Kezzie... I am so sorry for that... Speechless... I hope you two support each other, I am sure you do, and CBC's family :( Thinking of you, stay strong :( Hugs, Denise

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  22. Oh the ecstacy and the agony!
    Be kind to yourselves during this stressful time. I know when my husband lost his father he struggled for many weeks with needing time alone.
    I hope your new home will give you much needed joy.
    Many hugs, Jazzy Jack

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  23. So sorry to hear your sad news xx

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  24. Sorry to hear sad news at a time that should be a happy one for you. x

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  25. I am so sorry to read this news, and my thoughts are with you both.

    I do also hope that your move and settling into your new home goes well in the weeks ahead.

    Sending my good wishes

    All the best Jan

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  26. Hiya honey! So pleased and so sad all in one breath. The joy of a new home together and the loss of a loved one. Life can be so cruel. I hope you can find the strength you both need from your Faith and the knowledge that all us bloggers are sending you love and hugs and prayers.
    Zxx

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  27. Dearest Kezzie, such joy and sadness all in the same post. Goodness, you poor things. I'm sending you all my love and hope that you can take solace in the good, happy times you've all spent together as a family. Memories are all we have at the end of this life and I'm sure you have some wonderful ones.
    Wishing you much love,
    Anna xxxx

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  28. I'm so sorry to hear, my condolences to you both xx

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  29. I am truly sorry to hear such sad news.
    Love to you both.
    Lisa x

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  30. I am truly sorry to hear such sad news.
    Love to you both.
    Lisa x

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  31. Oh, Kezzie - just reading this now, because I was at my parents' home for a week and a half, because my father died too. I recall the many times you've mentioned your father-in-law here on the blog, and I could tell you love him, and he is a very special man, very gentle and kind. I remind myself regularly (because it helps) that my daddy still IS, that he is still the man he was (only better), and that he is relieved to be able to speak again and be rid of a body that was such a burden. May you find comfort, and no regrets! Remember the times you did spend together, and do not regret the times you did not.

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  32. once again, I'm very sorry to learn of it. I can imagine it was even more stressful with moving at all. When we were moving this Summer, I missed a couple of medical appointment and suffered a bad health crisis...I was in and out of hospital for 3 months. It is only now that I'm finally settled in the new home.

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