The random ramblings of an eclectic eccentric who wends waywardly through a myriad of activities!
Saturday, July 30, 2011
Let them eat hats 15 and 16- his and hers!
Friday, July 29, 2011
Books- nostaglic memories
28. Frances Pascall Sweet valley high confidential: 10 years on
29. Anthony Horrowitz Scorpia Rising
30. Julia Quinn On the way to the weddingThursday, July 28, 2011
Best blog award?
The lovely Sophie of Country girl blog, very kindly awarded me the above blog! I like it very much because it involves flowers, headbands, someone with brown hair and tenuously dots!
3. I was an absolute crazy fan of Paul McGann when I was a teenager after seeing him in Doctor Who the movie. I wrote sad letters to Doctor Who magazine stating how much I loved him! Cringe! I loved Doctor Who after that point and ended up owning hundreds of videos at one stage in my life (until CBC made me freecycle them last year)
5. I have performed the veternary surgical procedure known as castration on a black cat called Truffles. I was eight at the time and wanted to be a vet. (I was supervised in this procedure. )The cat lived to the ripe old age of 18!
Answer these questions:
Favourite colour: turquoise and purple
Favourite song: Ahrgh-choices!! Think of me from Phantom!
Favourite dessert - chocolate ice-cream or proffeterols.
When I'm upset: I cry. I pray, I phone friends,
Favourite pet: my darling silver tabby Sophie (sadly deceased)
Black and white: Love wearing both shades!
I'm passing this award to some very cool people!
Vintage Vix! Your blog makes me really happy!
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Why are you thrifty?
I have lots of habits such as shopping far too much which are not thrifty, and the sheer quantity is not thrifty. I like shops such as Whitestuff, Monsoon, Cath Kidston which are not really thrifty yet there is always a thrify edge underlying to my purchases. I love buying in charity shops, I love buying things on special offer or in the sale.
Alcohol:
Despite, the terrible shopping habits and having a house FULL of things, in some ways, I lead a thrifty lifestyle- I rarely drink. I have never really drunk that much. Number one, I don’t really like the taste of lots of beverages (beer, red wine, dry white, nasty whiskies, lots of spirits I am talking about you!) however, as a student at University, I just thought it a COMPLETE waste of money buying drinks- since it felt like literally throwing your money down the toilet- since that’s where it ends up eventually (sorry to be crude!). I like to eat, but I don’t NEED to drink (except for water which is cheap or gratis!).
Student loan:
My student loan was spent on 5 things- a proper new flute (necessary for my course and for many extracurricular activities), a B-foot for my flute (an alternative joint for the flute which means you can play one note lower and lots of strange extra-flute multiphonic notes), an alto flute (very versatile) and finally, paying towards my year of study in Indonesia, since the scholarship didn’t cover everything. Finally, I lived at home for the first 2 years of Uni as my Mum couldn’t afford for me to pay rent in London. However, in my third year, I really wanted to live up there so in addition to my part-time jobs (and flute-playing gigs), I spent some money on rent. So little of it was spent on alcohol and going out. However, SOME was spent on shopping…
Bad experience with credit cards:
In my first year, before living in London, in the space of 5 months, somehow I racked up a credit-card bill of £500 or so (kept forgetting to pay it). Once I had worked all summer at a hotel to clear it, I have never used one again since 2000. This was a valuable lesson. I just wont use one now, not least because of wasting money on interest and unnecessary late payment charges simply because I am forgetful.
Charity shops:
Why do I love charity shops? is another question that came up in Thrifty Mrs’s post. Well, as a child, money was always tight. My mum worked 3 part-time jobs to make ends meet. There quite simply wasn’t money for extras. Life was difficult in many ways. Though, my Mum put all her efforts into ensuring we took part in extra-curricular activities such as instrument lessons, music school, choirs, orchestra, dancing- because she felt that equipping us with skills and hobbies that would carry us through life was important. This is something I am eternally grateful for.
In addition, we worked on the family allotment. Meals as a child were vegetable stews, soups, concoctions. Very rarely did we eat processed goods or the things that I really wanted to eat as a child. So, the need to save came to me young.
When I was around 8 and obsessed with parrots (there is a point to that random point I promise) a charity shop opened at the end of our road where the chandelier shop used to be (it was still there but downsized)- the shop-sign announced ‘Charity shop’ in a Spartan way, stark, simple and to the point. I didn’t really know what a charity shop was before that. I was first drawn to it because of a red-polo neck top that was on the mannequin in the window (it was the late 80’s). I longed for a polo neck! So with my hard-saved money, I went to look with my mum and sister. Sadly, the polo neck had been snapped up but inside was like an Aladdin’s cave. There was sooooo much inside and I was mesmerized! The sheer variation and choice. The fact that nothing was orderly but there was a sense of adventure in seeking, exploring, searching for treasure. We all had a wonderful hour in there. At the end of the visit, I came out with a beautiful white t-shirt, intricately decorated with a sequinned parrot (aha, there was a point!), which in my atavistic mind seems Matthew William-esque in its intricacy, 50p; a beautiful silky royal blue blouse, 50p which served for many concerts during my young years, a set of 20 drop crystals from a chandelier that had broken, 10p (Christmas decorations, presents, much was made out of these) which for a child obsessed with Famous five treasure stories, was equivalent to finding the Falonia jewels (guess the book!). In addition, a musical score of the Pirates of penzance was booty and a sought-after Agatha Christie book. This formative experience served to send delighted sensations into my heart every time I encountered a charity shop.
As a teenager, I had part-time jobs from the age of 12 (dogwalker, chip-shop assistant, cat-sitting), so I wanted to save that capital as much as possible (like for university and for clothes!)
I loved shops like Miss Selfridge, Topshop, River Island and dearly wanted to buy items from there but I always waited for the sale, special offers etc. I remember Kickers being all the rage aged 15 and getting mine in the River island sale a year later at 70% off!
As I have become older, I still gain that feeling of delight and a sense of the Aladdin’s cave whenever I see a charity shop. I ADORE books, so I rarely buy mine new, but enjoy the furtive search through a loaded shelf in charity establishments or bonafide second hand book shops. I also love the sense that you never know what you will find. All my Georgette Heyer books all lived in charity shops before I re-homed them. My classroom at school is legendary (in my eyes of course but everyone knows about the absolute heap of books I have!) for the sheer wealth of books that I offer my children. Lots are my own childhood books but a lot more came from charity shops over the last 4 years. I couldn’t possibly offer the scope and variety at new prices. Lots of my favourite items of clothing come from charity shops – a gorgeous LK Bennett silk skirt covered in roses and honey bees, an oyster-pink silk-ballgown, a pair of brown suede boots, wonderful Per Una jeans, wonderful hats, a purple cord jacket, a red and white coat and loads more! And on the trouser front- I’ve only ever found ones I really like in a charity shop. I see no point buying it new if you can buy someone else’s!
There is also the environmental dimension. I am aware that I shop far too much (as my family constantly tells me), but part of me feels it isn’t so bad for the environment if some of it comes from the charity shop.
Technology:
On the technology front, CBC despairs of my tiny-screened portable TV (at least 12 years old)- we still have analogue TV in my house. But as long as I can see the screen, then that’s fine with me! I have a laptop which school provided. The one I had before it was one I bought from my sister second hand. Same with my camera. My CD players were bought as presents which are old. My DVD player is a cast-off from someone else. All my mobile phones are cast-offs from my sister (I’ve had my current Nokia one 4 years). I don’t have an i-pod. But again, I am aware of the constant onslaught of new technology available so I see no point in buying anything fancy or new. If it plays films, shows me a show, lets me hear some music or lets me speak on the phone then that’s enough. But at the same time, I don’t judge anyone else for spending lots of money on things because that is THEIR choice. It’s just not a priority for me!
I don’t have a car and I never learnt to drive; never really felt the need (and eye-sight issues) and I’ve always felt that I didn’t want to spend money on driving lessons. My Dad, who has instilled a carefulness regarding money in my mind, has always saluted me for this as he feels they are real drains on money.
I don’t seem to be aiming for any particular conclusion except that I do think thrifty-ness is very useful and I am glad that I developed these habits early on! It has meant that in recent times, particularly going out with CBC, that I have had the capacity to spend money, going on (not overly expensive) holiday, going out for meals, because I haven’t gone too mad in the past. Even if I was rich, I don’t think I’d ever give up having thrifty dimensions!
Thanks to a Thrifty Mrs for inspiration!
What are your thrifty habits and why?
Monday, July 25, 2011
Cards
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Let them eat hats 14- I'm siiiiiiiiingin' in the rain!
Today's hat is one that is entirely necessary for this heinous weather we have been encountering:
A waterproof Cath Kidston rain hat in Spray flowers print (courtesy of ASOS sale some months ago) As I went out into the garden as usual feeling stupid in front of the camera (but it is good for me to do this as I spent years avoiding one as I am usually SOOOOOOO unphotogenic- I've been determined for the last couple of years to actually BE in photos and for them to not make me cringe!! Must face my fears!) I found myself humming 'Singin' in the rain' (watched it 3 times last week whilst eating dinner!) And then found myself ridiculously prancing around alla Gene Kelly!
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Books- catch up on madness!
22. Georgette Heyer CotillionI LOVE Georgette Heyer. She really does write rather like Jane Austen I feel (except I am more aware of the darker sides of Regency society. ) This book is all the about the exploits of a young lady whose parents (one of shocking French parentage don'tchat know) died and lives with a crotchety old Uncle. The book begins as the old patriarch has tried to gather his other nephews with the news that he is to leave his fortune to the young lady only on condition that she marries one of her cousins. It transpires, she has always had a soft spot for cousin Jack, and the Uncle intends to push him to offer for her, but he alone doesn't turn up. She persuades the one cousin who she isn't repulsed by but who wont actually offer for her (he's a bit of a dandy corinthian, in a stylish way) to pretend he's offered for her and she accepts, so she can escape to London, with the hope that cousin Jack will be put out and will endeavour to win her hand.
However, it transpires that whilst Jack does intend to marry her eventually, he's a bit of a cad and he's courting other young ladies and gets involved in all sorts of awful schemes. Somehow along the way, she ends up falling for someone else who she didn't expect to!
I LOVED this book more than I have loved any other Georgette Heyer I've read before. I adore Freddie, the cousin who agrees to get engaged to her to help her and the story is really intriguing. Plus, the way she writes it is JUST how I would like the book to end. Another interesting insight into Regency London. If you like romance without too much smut, then this is for you. Also, Austenites, I would recommend.
Eat your heart out Mr Darcy, there's a new hero in town! (Mr Tilney, don't worry, you're still my favourite!)

23. Alison Prince My Story Henry the VIII's wives
Despite learning about the Tudors in year 9 at school, I didn't seem to know that much about Henry VIII's wives. Since I am moving to year 4 next year, when I saw these books in a lovely bookshop in Aldeburgh, I was intrigued to have a look at this and see if it was suitable for year 4. Right away, I would say that it is much too old for year 4 and I would probably consider this more suitable for year 8-9, 13-14 year olds. Even though this was a fictional account, it was obviously based on real people and I had NO idea how quickly Henry actually got through wives and the reasons he divorced, beheaded etc. Apparently, Katherine Parr wrote respected religious books. The narrator is a young girl who is approaching the age of being in court and we learn about Anne Boleyn through the diaries of a previous narrator, a friend of hers who was a lady in waiting to the queen and a relative who was a lady in waiting to Catherine of Aragon. I really recommend this as an intriguing read. How much is true I don't know, but I was quite shocked to read of the antics of his majesty, but also intrigued! If you like historical fiction based on real people, this is worth a read.
24. Michael Morpurgo Kaspar- Prince of cats
The thing I love about this significant children's author (and if you are a mum or dad, get your children to read his books- he is a REALLY good model of excellent story writing) is how he takes a gem of a real story or tale and tells a tale that you really believe could be true! This is set in the year 1912 or 1913 I believe, and a significant amount takes place in the Savoy and on board the Titanic. Throw in a Russian opera singer, a bellboy and a runaway American child and you have storytelling magic! A typical Morpurgo book, written in the first person, so he draws you in, with an animal playing a crucial role (in this case, Kaspar, cat of Opera singer), beautiful setting descriptions and a beguiling tale!
25. David Almond. Skellig
This is a seriously intense and creepy but WONDERFUL book. If you want to demonstrate how to write suspense then read this. I read it because I was studying it with my top guided reading group. A mysterious character, Skellig, what is he? He is found by our (1st person narrative again) main character in the garage of his new house. The character is worried by having moved house, a very sick baby sister and preoccupied parents. He discovers a new friendship with an unsual young lady and together they help restore the mysterious character Skellig to his full glory. Is he an angel? Read and find out. Amazing setting descriptions again, beautiful characterisations, I did shed a little tear reading this. Teenagers also study this book and it has become a film.
26. Alexander McCall Smith Espresso talesThis is my first 44 Scotland street novel and I don't know why I was expecting a mystery novel but it is a contemporary account of different characters's muddled lives. The narrator and focus changes in each chapter between a 5 year old, a young trainee doctor, and various others. They lead such interesting lives! The great thing about this book is that it was published daily in an Edinburgh newspaper. Alexander McCall Smith is a genius in writing characters that you love and empathise with. Don't want to give anything away but highly addictive. And great if you put books down for a while!
26. Michael Morpurgo Cool!Saturday, July 16, 2011
Let them eat hats 13- unlucky for some!
Laura at Daisychain dream recently posted about finding things you'd forgotten about at the back of the wardrobe and the shoes I was wearing here are such an item I found that morning! The great thing about these were they were free! My friend Anila had a clothesswap party and I was offered these by her Mum Vanessa who has equally large feet but decided she didn't like these pretty-much brand new suede Mary Jane Clarks shoes. They are sooooo comfy!
The necklace I wore is a vintage crystal bead necklace I bought in Felixstowe which I wore today and it was hilarious as young kids are like magpies and were instantly drawn to its shinyness and iridescence and kept coming to look!
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
Let them eat hats 12- Aaw woooodn't it be luverly!
I intended to wear this hat to school (despite KNOWING ridiculing was INEVITABLE!) but in the end, I forgot to pick it up since I woke up so late! It is the MOST ridiculous hat ever! Quite simply, I do feel like I am Eliza Doolittle in it since the flowers are so gaudy and enormous!
It came from a charity shop via my friend June! When our previous vicar left our church to retire, on his last Sunday, all the females decided to wear hats (He always used to say, why don't people wear hats to church!!) . I turned up in a LARGE black one (not yet featured in LTEH) decorated with a cornflower blue ribbon. June turned up in this one which she picked up in Cornwall just for the day to oblige the hat pledge! I fell in love and asked if I could try it on! At that point, June said I could have it and wouldn't accept any protests! I haven't really worn it out (for obvious reasons that it does rather look like it belongs to am dram!) although I did wear it for performing the Ascot song from My Fair lady in a cabaret evening!
It put me in an amateur dramatics frame of mind and I couldn't help but prance as I took these photos in a generally unacceptable demenour for a sensible 30 year old!
So, do you think this hat belongs in a theatre costume store or can I get away with it?
In addition, have you had a pair of earrings that everyone adores, to your utter bemusement?
P.S. thanks for general hat love (and support re the big O!). Nice for my poor neglected millinery to be appreciated!
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
Let them eat hats 11- the celebration hat!
Monday, July 11, 2011
Aaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwooooooooooo!!!!

The big O so far...the half way mark with some amazing clouds!
Thursday, July 07, 2011
Pray until something happens!
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Monday, July 04, 2011
Let them eat hats 10- a brown replacement goes adventuring in Aldeburgh!
Fish and chip mosaic!
A couple of weeks ago, CBC and I went to Aldeburgh and Snape Maltings in Suffolk to go and watch 2 Ligeti piano concerts as part of the Aldeburgh music festival! CBC has waxed lyrical about this place as has my Mum (she's mad for it!) for a long time so I was intrigued! Right away, I was struck with how beautiful and other it was! It was like going back in time- if you
like artistic places, seaside resorts and time warps, then visit- it's gorgeous!
As soon as we'd picked up tickets from the box office in Snape, we drove down to Aldeburgh, trying to find a place to park, we bemused several pedestrians by going back and forth along the same stretch of road 10 times it seemed!
Once parked, we went to join the queue of around 20 people snaking around the side one of the fine fish and chip shops. It was much nicer than the one I worked in with a beautiful fish mosaic and fentimens drinks in the fridge!
We couldn't even wait for them so we began scoffing as we meandered towards the beach! The beach is a pebbly one at Aldeburgh with content imported from afield to ensure that it doesn't erode too much. My mum particularly loves a large shell sculpture which is supposedly on the beach though I didn't explore far enough.
Cute cinema!!!
We found an ideal house to live in! Roses around the door. Blue painted wood. Nice front garden. Tree to climb...
The beach-huts are great fun and the variety of pastel abodes are very picturesque.
Love this milestone!