Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 10, 2025

Eyes on you

CBC was away at DoE Silver Expedition from Saturday to Monday. I was awoken around 5am by him frantically scouring the house for his belongings to pack and as he kissed me goodbye at 6.50am, I asked him if he'd made himself lunch. He hadn't so there I was at 6.51am, running downstairs in my nightie to make him sandwiches and salad.

I then spent the next few hours until 3pm tidying and cleaning our very messy house and doing washing.  At 3pm, having quickly packed, I walked to the station and made my way to Kent to stay at my Dad's house.  He picked me up from Ebbsfleet and I discovered my sister had sent him along with a cup of tea in an insulated cup to drink on the journey back to their home.  What a nice surprise! Dad and I ate some crisps in the car and made our way over there.   After some chat, we had a lovely Dine in Meal from the Three Sisters restaurant at Chart Farm which was amazing!  After dinner, my sister and I played a game of Qwirkle.  We got to a very exciting moment where we realised someone could score 31 points in one go and annoyingly, I had 2 of the three pieces needed for this when she got the piece I needed!  Luckily, we both like a visually pleasing Qwirkle board so we agreed to a few movements to make it look pleasing!


We went off to bed and woke around 9am. 

My little sister has a real way with describing garments.  As in, she makes them sound hideous. I am always really sceptical when she describes a new item she has bought to me and when I finally see it, it's usually very nice!  So, when I was describing to her what I was going to wear for the birthday barbecue, I asked her if I should try and describe it to her in her style. She was highly amused and told me to go ahead. 

"Well, it's a jumpsuit that kind of has really baggy legs.  It's coloured in bright coloured splotches all over it and it's also got weird eyes and suns on it."


Here's what I wore for the family barbecue.  I have loved this jumpsuit from Emily and Fin for ages and when Emily and Fin recently stopped trading, I was really sad as I really like their clothes so when I saw this on Vinted for £14, I grabbed it whilst I could.  My sister was wearing a cardigan that day that really matched it, so I stole it to wear!
This is the cardie I was really wearing!

My older sister, husband and my niece joined us around 12am and we ate lots of delicious food. Of course, we had a game of Qwirkle.  It was a really pleasing game with everyone playing nicely and aiming for fat chunks of tiles! There were numerous Qwirkles.  There was a hilarious moment where there were two positions to get double Qwirkles in one go.  My younger sister got one and then, everyone was waiting for the Yellow cross tile to complete the other one. 
It was hilarious because my sister's boyfriend placed his tile and got it to the utter frustration of my niece and older sister whose turns were next WHO HAD ALSO PICKED OUT A YELLOW CROSS!  It was hilarious! I came second place by 4 points!

My sister drove me back and I ended up finishing the cleaning by washing the tiled floors!  

Monday, I had a good day at school and had a lovely surprise when I went back to the music room with my Drumming Club as 3 of my old Sad Frog crew, T, T and A were waiting there to see me!  Hilariously, A wrote a message on my board like she used to.
Today, school was also a good day teaching the Year 3's about Reggae.
After school, I came back to the Music room and there were my girls again.  I had no club and they weren't in a hurry so they stayed for 20minutes for a chat before going home! It was so, so lovely to see them and they filled me in on all the gossip from Secondary School.  I feel so honoured that they still want to come and see me this time of year. Usually, they become too school for school!


I had my hair cut in Hexham in the half term and the hairdresser had styled it really nicely and my younger sister kindly styled it for me again!  She always used to love doing my hair from a young age and she still likes doing it!


Here's a picture of my Great, Great Grandfather which my dad discovered and showed me when I was over there! He's from the English side of the family.  We had some interesting chats about my paternal family.  
For instance, I may have mentioned that my Grandmother was Greek.  What I now understand is that the family lived in Turkey in Istanbul when she was young but because of difficulties over Greek people being in Turkey at that time, essentially, they were sort of refugees who ended up in Egypt.  My Great Grandfather was a very respected Civil Engineer in Turkey before he left so he got work very easily in Egypt as did the rest of the family who all were scientists of sorts. I need to talk to my dad more about his family past as I found it very interesting!  Then lots of that side of the family moved to South America which I had no idea about!

I have an orchestra rehearsal tomorrow with Orchestra of the City who I haven't played with since last July (apart from covering a few rehearsals last October).
Hope you are well!
xx



Tuesday, October 29, 2024

A tribute to Leigh

 A dear family friend died two weeks ago.  Possibly the biggest influence on my life outside of family.  He was my Godmother's husband- so to me, a Godfather.  I am so glad I got to see him before he died and glad I saw him earlier in the year before he became ill but wishing I had seen him more.

Leigh, you have been such an important part of my life.

Always there, not always saying anything but always there. Smiling, caring, acknowledging.

Every Christmas, there you were.

Your home, was a place of welcome, a place of joy for all.

Your Mum, I will always remember, the grand matriarch with her pale tea.

Your epic Record and CD collection- you were the ultimate music listener- I used to stare in awe at your shelves.

Your musical knowledge was more than anyone I knew.

Those vast tall speakers, like tower blocks which met with an unfortunate incident involving the Time Warp, a tuba player and Georgia’s feet!

My chilled recorder lessons on a Saturday morning. The calmest teacher I ever had. We worked our way through recorder pieces, tried to comprehend Hans Martin Linde’s Music for a Bird. We fretted over the time I told the Chief Examiner of the Country for the Associated Board  in my Grade 8 that she had missed out a part of my Aural exam! The time I told you about the lovely examiner I had for Grade 6 recorder who had asked me so many nice questions about myself and you insisted it was the window cleaner!

Those hilarious games at Christmas- Party Edition Pictionary. Your ‘intriguing’ drawings.

The Christmas lights, hung around your fireplace that placed a whole stream of perfectly untuned melodies! Silent night was the best! That lovely tuneful swoop lower in pitch on the 4th note!

Dependable in the Brentwood orchestra, you played every note perfectly, it was not the same once you went, you were the perfect 1st oboe. I loved getting a lift with you and chatting in the car.

I remembered my early teen inclusion in the Redbridge Concert Band- over at Beal school. You gave me the chance to meet and play with many other musicians, the University of East London band. I went to Germany on tour and had all those opportunities because of you.

I will always remember those late night drives home in your landrover, dormobile, estate car and other cars including the one I am SURE had not only one back seat but a second layer of seats! Is that my imagination????  Always passing the MUSTDESTROY.COM building near the Barking flyover and laughing about it!

You and Georgina were an inseparable joy in my life.

Georgina, the life and soul of the party-quietly loved and supported by you, always seemingly proud and amused at the wit and vivacity of your wonderful wife.

You were the most multitalented instrumentalist I knew- the man who could turn his hand to any instrument, had a myriad instruments hidden in the loft, under the stairs or behind the sofa. You were my inspiration to be that multi-talented multifaceted instrumentalist and have a house full of instruments. I used to gleefully tell people that you played every instrument!  One of your saxophones was silver- the only person I knew with one like this!

That soft Welsh lilt, those animated eyes as you told of an amazing musical memory, you always had a story for any I could put to you.

Say the word ‘Carob’ to me and I instantly think of you!!! Your allergies meaning you had to avoid the treats most of us loved! But Carob raisins were a treat for you.

Oh Leigh, you have always been there and I am sorry that I have not seen you so much in recent years but you have always been much loved and much admired and I hope that we do you justice at your funeral.  You will ALWAYS be at the heart of my most happy memories and I thank you for your love, support and friendship! xx

 

https://www.hcoweb.co.uk/people/players/leigh-thomas/

https://www.hcoweb.co.uk/2024/10/13/leigh-thomas/

https://www.brentwoodphil.org.uk/profiles/players/leigh-thomas

https://www.abgs.org.uk/culturalactivities/GlamChoir/Orch_Jul20_1965/Orch_Jul20_1965_p4trans.html

 

Thursday, September 12, 2024

Divisive humour

I saw a funny tweet:

"There's a fine line between a numerator and a denominator.  Only a fraction of people will find this funny"

I posted it to my family Whatsapp saying, "I am one of those people"

My Dad responded:

"As long as you aren't in the fraction that is vulgar. Boom, boom!

I replied:

"I would never be guilty of such improper behaviour!"

CBC replied:

"I prefer decimal humour.  It's more to the point.  (Except when it's recurring.)

My BiL replied:

"I've told you many TIMES these kind of jokes are not a good ADDITION to your repertoire."

CBC replied:

"There's no need to be divisive!"


What would you ADD to this conversation?

Wednesday, August 30, 2023

The two weeks at home

 I left you in my last Northumberland post with us driving back to Essex on Tuesday the 1st August. 

Wednesday, the 2nd August:

CBC and I spent the day at home, getting washing done, doing some tidying (me) and cleaning and bemoaning the rain! It WAS good to be home! I LOVE waking up in my bedroom when I don't have any reason to be up! I love our bedroom and the way the light hits in the morning and how spacious our bedroom is. Having grownup sharing a TITCHY boxroom with my sister (bunkbeds) and even when my mum moved out when I was renting our house from her, her room was still tiny, I REALLY appreciate the space in my home!

Thursday 3rd August:

 CBC and I got up and travelled in the car to Watford to meet our/ his PGCE friend, her children and another friend. She was over from Sweden where she and her husband live.  We met them in Cassiobury park (which is an EXCELLENT public park with great facilities) and immediately went on the little train with them. Her toddler twins LOVED it. It was nice to engage with them this time as the last time we had seen them back in Summer 2022, they were not really communicative.  We walked back to Fiona's Mum's house for cake and tea and played with the boys.  Toddlers are exhausting! I admired a beautiful purple house plant and was given a cutting of it- apparently it might be Tradescantia. It has now rooted and has taken residence in the enormous pot in the bathroom, recently vacated by monster Aloe which suffered a dreadful demise!  After that, we drove to the Chilterns to music camp! I was really sad that CBC didn't want to go this year but didn't make a fuss about it but was really happy we could combine the trip to see fee to visit camp!  We arrived just as they were going into dinner. As we were going to watch a concert performance of The Pirates of Penzance by Gilbert and Sullivan, I had brought my tricorn hat (which ended up being borrowed!) and they had themed dinner of Cornish pasties and cream tea- odd combination! The performance was hilarious! I was offered a glass of gin and tonic by some friends who were watching. I don't usually like Gin (I don't really drink ever) but I said yes, and it was quite refreshing! Afterwards, we chatted to various friends until midnight and then had to drive back to Essex!

Friday 4th August:

URGH! It was a rainy, rainy, rainy day.  I have no idea what I did during the day but in the end, after CBC and I were going a bit stir crazy, I called our friend Nath and suggested we take a trip to the Cinema together.  We ended up going to Southend Odeon to see Mission Impossible but CBC and I had  a Thai street food  meal at a little place on a side-street we discovered- it was quite slow to come so we had to bolt it down which is not my favourite way to eat Thai food. Mission Impossible was largely unbelievable but highly entertaining. Alas, on the way from the car, I wasn't looking what I was doing and ended up slightly stepping off a high curb and ended up falling splat onto my knees in the middle of the road. It was SO painful and I had the most EPIC bruise on my left knee which lasted for the next 2 weeks!

Saturday 5th August:

More rain.  Again, we felt a bit stir-crazy! CBC wanted to drop his computer bike off to a vintage restoration cycle shop called By the Sea Cycles to have some work done, so we went to Westcliff. Whilst he sorted the bike, I had a quick look in the charity shops (nothing bought) and then he met me. We decided to walk to Southend pier. We had a Rossi ice-cream, sitting on a bench and then walked along the esplanade. It felt really good to be out. We had our raincoats on and an umbrella. At the pier, we went into Cafe 21 where CBC had a pizza and I had an Earl Grey tea.  We hotfooted it back to the car as we only had 2 hours free-parking and went home. 

Sunday 6th August:

 CBC had booked us tickets to Writtle Jazz Festival!  Bizarrely, he then chose that morning to mow the lawn and do some gardening. I was perplexedly waiting to go and eventually we drove there.   We parked at Writtle college and then walked to the Village Green.  We set up with our camp chairs and went between the two gazebos to watch first the Jazz Dynamos, then the NeilAngilley trio, the Paul Higgs Pavane, all of which were excellent. I had some veg noodles in my own container with my own cutlery (the catering team were happy to fill my own container) and CBC had some Mexican.  I was sad to miss Amy Hollingsworth as I know her from my local orchestra but later, I saw her mum and dad who were both doing a shift on the events team and had a catch up! We made our way home around about 7.30pm.

Monday 7th August:

CBC decided to go out cycling so I decided, after being at home for a while, to take myself off on a circular walk to the nearest woods. I met very few people and had a lovely, sunny, warm walk. Spotted a Speckled Wood butterfly.  CBC was home before me!

Tuesday 8th August:

I spent the morning at home whilst CBC went off to Maldon to meet a work colleague and her toddler plus an cold colleague at a soft play and then I caught the train to Stratford to Westfield to meet two childhood friends,  Davina and Joanne. Davina was the friend I reconnected with at the school 70th anniversary.  We went for lunch at the Malaysian place at the end, near John Lewis and then had a walk in the Olympic park. The food was delicious and it was nice to catch up but I am not that keen on large shopping centres so I wasn't so fond of that part!

Wednesday 9th August: 

TODAY was CBC's and my 10th wedding Anniversary!!!! It got off to less than an ideal start by CBC being very reluctant to get moving but eventually, we drove to Tunbridge Wells, Kent to our friend Tony and Libby's beautiful house. They are friends from music camp and I was really sad we hadn't got to see them. Plus, Libby had broken her leg and was really stuck at home and feeling really down so we concocted a plan for us to go and see them so Libby and I could play flute duets. CBC and Tony went to go and walk round their extensive garden (and shared lake!),  talk about walking in Zermatt and Libby and I got started on duos.  We stopped for a beautiful garden lunch and then Tony joined us on piano to try out some new arrangements he had made of some Debussy pieces.  Finally, CBC joined us for some Haydn trios 'London Trios' for 2 flutes and cello which we all enjoyed.  We said goodbye to them and drove to my Dad's and Stepmum's.  We  chatted and then shared a beautiful fish curry in the garden, cooked by my sister and Magnums.  After dinner, we ended up playing our new board game, Herd Mentality, with much hilarity, and headed home around 11pm.  It's not the most conventional way to spend an anniversary but it was a wonderful day!

Thursday 10th August:

 CBC planned to go somewhere (I forget where) so he drove me to Battlesbridge station to meet my friend Lara to drive to our friend Hazel's house to play flute trios.  We were supposed to be doing a concert the previous Sunday but it had been cancelled so we were happy to meet to play particularly as H had been ill and L rather stressed.   Later, when I got home, CBC and I cooked a Vegetable dinner, trying to make use of the masses of vegetables he had brought the on Tuesday.

Friday 11th August:

 My sister came round with my niece late morning after my niece had had trampolining at our local leisure centre.  We drank tea and K and I played board games, including the debut of the new vintage game, Rivers, Roads and Rails, that I had recently acquired.  We then all headed to the garden centre which has an excellent tea-room/lunch place with garden. We all enjoyed tasty lunches and played Herd Mentality to much hilarity.  CBC and K played hide and seek around the garden centre whilst my sister and I debated buying Dahlias. We both ended up buying a plant in the end.  Back home, we all played a game of Dobble and then they went home.

Saturday 12th August:

 In the afternoon, CBC and I drove to Leigh to pick up a painting that CBC had bought back during the Art Trail in June and we had lunch at Barlow and Field, an intriguing Vegan sliced bread roll.  Later, CBC headed out to meet some colleagues for a birthday whilst I started to pack for Switzerland.

Sunday 13th August:

  I headed to church for 9am to play for the morning service. I really like playing my flute as I sit next to lovely Sue, who plays the keyboard and join in. It's really low key and I enjoy it. Had a lovely surprise today as the minister, his wife and family from the baptist church I used to go to before lockdown were there for the service as their daughter, who lives in New Zealand had got married at this church exactly a year ago and were there for their anniversary. It was so lovely to catch up with them and they were pleased to see me settled in this church. Richard, the minister, said he loves coming to the service here, and if he has a Sunday off, he likes to come there for worship. Back home, I did some more work on packing and spent most of the day trying to harass CBC into packing. He got started eventually, in the evening...

It had been a varied 2 weeks at home, it had flown by quickly! Did not get all the school work I was intending to (story of my life), but it had some fun times.

Now, we were heading to Switzerland for our 10th anniversary tour!

xxx


Sunday, June 04, 2023

A day at the beach

 On Friday, my sister dropped round as my niece has trampolining lessons at my local leisure centre.  She'd been for a 20km run so she came in and we had a cup of tea, then she had a shower. 

After this, she suggested that I join her and my niece at the beach to spend some time with their friend at their beach hut. I demurred at first because I had school work to do.  Not having been well meant I'd had that brain fog and then we went to the Suffolk coast on Thursday.

However, in the time we went to collect K from her trampoline class, I decided that I should go with them. I don't see them all that often and perhaps some WARM sea air (it was freezing in Aldeburgh on Thursday!) might do me some good.

K was delighted I would come along with them too which made it worth it!

We parked at the beach and found that my sister's running friend's beach hut was just one groyne along from mine and K's favourite place to swim.

It was quite breezy and the tide was going out, however, all three of us decided that we had to have a swim, no matter how cold it was.

It definitely wasn't hot but all three of us managed to stay in the water for about 30minutes. We waded and had a little attempt at swimming out, despite it being quite shallow. It was quite refreshing though I didn't want to get too cold because of my cough.

After a while, we came back to the beach and started to dry off with towels. We ate some lunch (I had crackers, cheese, tomatoes, carrots) and then K and I got a little bored.  We went for a wander and then I suggested we have a 5 minute timer to write each other's name on the beach.

K did mine with a brown stone heart and a shell K.
I made hers with oyster shells.

I then suggested that we work on something together.
We began with a heart but then K suggested doing a butterfly instead.

It took us about an hour!  O, the daughter of H, the beach hut owner, came and joined us a quarter of the way in (she's the O in the initials)
More of the running friends turned up and we managed to enlist some minions to collect oyster shells for us.



Oyster shells for the wings, brown stones for the body, black stones for the antennae and pink shells for the bits at the top of the antennae.



We were very proud of our efforts.

After this, K and I went for a wander further down the beach where we had a really fun music improvisation session using stones, shells, the wooden groynes, our feet- alla Stomp.  K seemed to really enjoy it as she kept going with me, making some funky rhythms and apparently, the rest of the beach enjoyed it too!
Eventually, it was time to leave.  We helped pack up the beach hut and then we walked back to the car.
They dropped me home and then drove themselves.
I made myself a much-needed cup of tea and CBC came home around 8.50pm, after a 120mile cycle ride!  I made us dinner of Pie Minster Filo pies with new potatoes and veg and then it was time for bed.
It was a really enjoyable day and I am glad I joined my sister and niece at the beach!
xx

Wednesday, April 19, 2023

The Pennine Way

 





















Hello there!

Phew, it's been a busy holiday! I've barely stopped to catch my breath before moving on! Thankfully for me, my school has an extra day's holiday tomorrow so I am not back till Tuesday (and can get some work done!) 

We set off for Hebden Bridge on Sunday the 2nd April in the car.  I packed mostly that morning, although I had thrown a pile of camping stuff I thought I needed at the rucksack that I had borrowed from CBC's work colleague who runs DoE.   I really was feeling apprehensive since I had no idea how I'd be able to cope with 4 days of walking with a heavy rucksack on top of camping for 3 nights!  Before that, however, we had to get there and have 2 days in Hebden Bridge.  We packed pretty minimally as we would be walking for most of our time away but before that, we had to decide whether we would like the car in Hebden bridge and return to it at the end or to drive to our end point, Hawes and leave the car there and make our way back with our rucksacks only to Hebdon Bridge. I knew which version I liked best which was version 1! 



It took us about 4 hours and 20 minutes to drive there (or rather CBC driving, not me!) I provided snacks at regular intervals.  We decided that it was probably better to leave the car in Hebdon which was a relief to me.  We arrived ahead of when we could check into our Air BnB so we parked in the town and went to have a wander around.   We went straight to Mountain Wild, their main independent outdoor shop as I needed to buy a lightweight raincoat as both my Seasalt ones are too bulky and heavy for lightweight camping.  I ended up buying a Mountain Equipment one which was expensive but a good one and the man gave me a 10% discount on it. We also picked up some Dehydrated meals for CBC's sister/brother/brother in law which they had ordered as they were already 3 days into the Pennine Way ahead of us and would be meeting us in Hebdon on the Monday evening.


After a delightful lunch in a cafe in the market place, we drove up to Hebble End to our Air BnB which was this place called The Cabin.   We parked the car and found our way in. It was a lovely and so close to town, yet quiet with a lovely view over Hebdon.  We explored the apartment which had a lovely kitchen full of teas and cereals and snacks for us as well as milk etc. After a cup of tea and a sit down for a while, we made our way down to town to visit the Thai restaurant for dinner, Rim Nam Thai.

It was a really attractive restaurant with an impressive, well-priced menu.

I started with a mixed platter- this is the 1st Thai restaurant where you didn't have to have a minimum of 2 people ordering it, I could have it by myself without trying to persuade CBC to also have it! We ordered a bowl of Thai prawn crackers which was vast. The platter was excellent and varied!

For my main, I had Jungle curry with prawn which was very spicy, more than I expected. I usually have Thai green. It was nice but a little bit hot (and I like spice). CBC had yellow Curry which was mild- I ended up finishing his as he didn't have enough space for it all!

The next morning, after a really good night's sleep, we got up, had breakfast and headed into Hebdon.  After a look around and buying some things, we headed into Leila's Vegetarian Persian Kitchen for Lunch.

I had the mixed platter which was excellent. CBC had some lovely dishes too including Baba Ganoush and a Lentil Stew.
As we walked back to our apartment, we saw a train approaching as we walked over the railway bridge.  We decided to stand and wave, alla The Railway Children and to our delight, the train driver not only waved back but gave us a "Toot, Toot" on his horn!

We decided to go for a walk along the Canal Path to see if could meet the Pennine Way team on their way into Hebdon as well as trying out our rucksacks.  It was a warm day. The walk was ok (around 5 miles) until we took a wrong turn on the way back and CBC made us walk on my absolutely most hated type of path which combines the followung.
1. Woodland thus lots of fallen leaves.
2. Steep,thin Diagonal path.
3. Sheer drop next to it
4. Drop down to certain death in the river.

Making it worse was my massive rucksack which weighed a lot and skewed my balance.  I absolutely lost it at one point where I couldn't see where to tread without slipping down to the aforementioned death drop (several times in fact) and had hysterics. CBC was not particularly sympathetic.
This left me feeling rather anxious about the forthcoming 4 day trek.

We received a message from our Pennine team to say they were in town and we arranged to meet in the Indian Restaurant, Cardoman (excellent) for dinner.  We took a trip to the COOP to get some breakfasts and lunches for our next 2 days of camping/trekking.
The Pennine team looked completely shattered after 3 days of intense walking and camping so were really looking forward to their B&B bed and were happy for a shower.

The next day we arranged to meet at 9am on the main street.  I had a bit of an upset stomach after the Indian (lentils!!!! I love them but they do NOT love my gut!) so I made us a bit late so we got there at 9.20am.
We set off straight up the steep stone steps of the Hebdon Loop to get us back onto the Pennine Way. It was steep and hot work.
Here's our Team Photo!
After a few disagreements of the route (Kamoot versus OS map!), we got on. The team were well into the swing of things and have planned times for stopping for snacks and lunch.  Our day was 17.5miles and we were aiming for Ickenshaw for a campsite.

The walk was very varied but I was feeling quite bright. My rucksack felt extraordinarily heavy and I had to keep rolling my neck and arms!

Bananas are good for energy (I was wearing CBC's fleece here)

We stopped 12miles into our journey for lunch at a great lunchspot with benches (next to a ruined stone building).  I had made myself some Palma Ham rolls. The others had meal deals. CBC made coffee on his stove!

A distinctive feature of the Pennine way are these large flagstone paths.  Sometimes they get covered in bog mud and water but when we reached a moor at the top of a climb, there was a section called "The Sea" mainly because you are surrounded by bog and marshland in all directions. The light was golden and it was really lovely to walk on. A few times, the path disappeared and you had to try and avoid the watery bog. My trousers were already caked in mud round the bottom but after most of the day being right at the back of the group with the boys going far ahead, this section, I was in the middle and loved it!


By the time we reached Ickenshaw where we were camping in a field owned by some people, we were very tired with aching feet and legs. It was hard to believe we would be doing to the same again tomorrow but perhaps after food and sleep, it would be ok?
We set up our tents and cooked our dehydrated meals on the camp stove (you had hot water to the pouch, shut it and leave it for 15mins.  The place had a shower and toilet and they let us have use of their summer house (which had a kettle and plug which we didn't use till morning).

My meal, Orzo Pasta Bolognese, seemed pretty grim to me, it still seemed a bit hard and largely tasteless, whereas everyone else's seemed better. 
After cleaning teeth and visiting the loo (I'm usually a 'visit the loo 6 times' type- can't really do that camping), we got into our tents around 10pm.

And then, began my endless night of no sleep.
I had not brought a jumper with me on the trip and my tshirt for sleeping in (plus merino wool leggings) were not warm enough inside my borrowed down sleeping bag.  I put my down jacket inside the sleeping bag too but it made me sweaty. Also the church in the village chimed every hour and half hour and yes, I heard every blasted one of them! The ground felt hard and I didn't get to sleep until around 6am, when it started to rain- the sound was soothing.  By the time we had to get up, at around 8am, I was exhausted and feeling somewhat daunted.  I got up and showered which helped perk me up a bit and we headed to the Summer House to boil the kettle for our porridge pots.
I was so on edge, I struggled to eat my porridge and drink my tea. We set off around 9.30am to walk.

The day was overcast and became rainy pretty soon with a penetrating mizzle that seemed to seep into our bones! Everyone else, who had slept well (CBC delighted with his new down sleeping bag!), was in good spirits at first.
I felt really anxious because I felt like S, was a bit cross at CBC and I for holding us up a bit from leaving the campsite which, given my tiredness, was not good for making me feel positive about the day.  I seemed permanently stuck alone at the back though CBC did spend time with me, knowing I was feeling blue.
We reached a village with a wonderful honesty box of cake in clingfilm- massive slabs for £1- everyone grabbed 2 slices. I had one chocolate cake slab but after CBC accidentally slopped water everywhere, making others a bit annoyed, I did cry. Only CBC and his brother noticed but I was so tired, everything was making me upset. I trudged on saying Psalm 23 to myself and singing church songs which helped me to cheer up and keep going.

The rain was pretty relentless so by the time we were due a snack break, we reached a village. S asked was looking for a bus shelter for us to stop in when some amazingly kind builders asked us if we wanted to come and sit in the house they were working on and even offered us the use of their kettle plus teabags to make ourselves tea! We were unbelievably touched and went in. It was such a relief to sit down without the rucksack and drink warm tea. I ate a banana too which helped.


We reached the village of Gargrave (11 miles into our journey) and originally would have stopped for lunch in a pub but decided to just get sandwiches and aim for a pub in our final destination. We went to the COOP to get lunch plus lunch and breakfast for the next 2 days of camping.
This was 2 porridge pots, bananas, a sandwich for both days (I got a bacon turnoever as I wanted something hot).
As it was so wet, S called a Bunkhouse called Hilltop farm in Malham and tried to see if we could stay there instead of camping. I prayed and prayed that they would be able to accommodate us.
The owner was away in Northumberland but she tried to arrange for us to be let in.

The next stretch of the walk was the most difficult. After a steep walk, it was endless bog, slop, mud and water for miles with continual rain. My left walking boot had felt like it was leaking first thing in the morning and now, I had awful, sloppy wet feet for the next couple of hours.  Everyone was pretty silent as we trudged onwards.  

We crossed a bridge around 14.3 miles when all of a sudden, I looked down at my boot to discover...

Yes, the sole of my walking boot had come off. I walked the next 0.2 miles or so trying not to lose it. As we reached the main road, the sole came off totally! (the road that could take us to Malham, our destination). At that moment, a message had come through from Jill at the Hilltop Farm Bunkhouse who said she could pick anyone up from the road into Malham if anyone needed rescuing. I could not believe the timing of her message!  CBC called her and asked if she could come and help us! The others carried on determined to finish the 4 miles remaining of the walk.
Jill came in less than 10 minutes and got us in the car! I was so grateful, I almost cried.
She drove us to the bunkhouse and let us in. It was totally empty but us. She said it was really unusual for it to be completely empty at that time of year and they had a party coming in 2 days. Another amazing piece of luck (for me, the timing was divine intervention!).  She was unbelievably kind and helpful and offered to take our tent and any clothes away to wash and dry for us.  She said she might have some walking boots or shoes for me to borrow in the meantime and thought that perhaps the new (only opened in December) village shop, H's, might have walking boots for sale.  She also offered to drive me into Settle, should I not be able to find anything in the shop. So kind!
We took off our sopping clothes and hung all our belongings in the drying room and went for a shower before sitting down with a cup of tea.  She came back with 2 pairs of boots- 1 size 7 (too small) and one size 9 (a bit big) but the latter would do in the meantime.

The others arrived an hour or so later, totally demoralized. The 4miles we had missed were a river walk with thick, slippery muddy churned up ground (by sheep) and was really difficult.  They said we had missed absolutely nothing by missing those last few miles and their feet and spirits were not great!

They had quick showers and then hung up all their drenched, mud-encrusted clothing and J donned the pair of Size 7 boots (2 sizes too large) as her trail shoes were so disgusting and soggy and the 5 of us departed to the local pub, The Lister Arms (named after "Gentleman Jack", Anne Lister, for dinner.
Ah, the pub was wonderful and the food was tremendous! I had a stupendously hearty Fish Pie and all of us were grateful for the cosy fire and warm interior.  We all felt our spirits restore and we made our way back in the rain to the bunkhouse. I cannot tell you how grateful I felt at the prospect of my bunkbed.  They had given us 2 rooms (very basic, very tiny) and of course, the communual facilities with pillows and radiators.  I slept really well.
At the pub, we had made a decision, based on the poor weather forecast for the next day, plus my boot situation, plus the fatigue of the group, that we might take a rest day, IF we could get the bunk house for a 2nd night and would need to then adjust our plans.  Malham Cove was the next item on our journey and it is considered one of the finest parts of the Way so we would like to do it in beautiful weather, not torrential rain.

The next morning, we all had a lie in and then ate our porridge breakfasts.  We were all very achy.  My inner thigh  join at the groin hurt  a lot when I tried to raise it and was struggling a bit to lift it. This made me worry
Mid-morning, CBC and I headed into town to see what the boot situation was.

We walked via the river which was a delight with wrens trilling merrily and boldly coming close whilst the river played a soothing accompaniment.

To our delight, H's, the new village shop was really well stocked with a variety of useful items including outdoor clothing AND walking boots.
After trying a few on, the ones that were available in my large size 8, I ended up buying a pair of men's boots. I wore them out of the shop and CBC and I went for a walk around the town.


We decided to try and take the boots for a gentle walk before the rain started, to test them and walked to Janet Foss, a 1 1/4 mile walk to a gorgeous waterfall.  It was a very gentle walk on a clear path. To my delight, I spotted an abundance of Wild Garlic in the lead up to Janet's Foss- an absolute PARADISE of Wild Garlic!  I was rather gutted that I would be needing to transport my backpack so travelling 14 miles with Wild Garlic was not going to be the best choice so I had to leave it, but I snacked on it as we walked!  I was a little worried that my left leg hurt a lot



After the walk back to the village, we met the other siblings in the tea room for cake and tea.  An afternoon back at the ranch ended with us heading to the Buck Inn for dinner.
Both my starter and main meal (Vegetable Gyoza for starter and steak for main!) were tasty.
We traipsed back to the Bunkhouse.  A moment of panic was when my Brother in Law couldn't find the key and started to jog back to find it- luckily, he returned in about 3 minutes after he found it in his pocket.  We worked on packing and consolidating our belongings as much as possible and then tried to get to bed as early as possible.

The next morning, we rose around 7.30ish, showered and had breakfast.  Just as we were about to go, Jill turned up with a really kind offer.  When I wasn't sure about whether I would be ok enough to do the walk the previous day, I had mentioned this to her. She volunteered to transport my rucksack to Horton for me to the pub so I would be able to walk the lovely walk to Malham Cove and Pen Y Ghent.  I gladly took her up on this offer!  I was frankly sick of that rucksack!


What a difference sunshine and no rucksack make to your mood! We were all in good spirits  I was practically skipping and we were all cheerful!  The first part of the walk towards Malham Gorge and Cove and Gordale Scar was really beautiful.


Our next main landmark was  Malham tarn.  It made me think about swimming! We had our first snack break there!

Pen Y Ghent was on my mind as we walked.  Would it be scary and scrambly or would it be ok, especially now I didn't have my rucksack?  It was huge and impassable in my head.  I would be slipping and sliding on difficult to find paths- diagonal with nothing to hold onto!

Finally, after all the other climbs and downhills, Pen Y Ghent came into view!
We chatted to the other people we met- everyone said that PenY Ghent was beautiful, not too scary. Maybe I would be ok and wouldn't have to cry!
CBC and his brother started the ascent first, I was in the middle (I'd spent a lot of the day by myself in the middle!) and J & S were at the rear.

Can you see CBC and his brother?

Ah Pen Y Ghent was GORGEOUS!  It was a lot of climbing onto rocky ledges near the top and I needed some guidance on where to go but I enjoyed it! Not sure I would have been so good with my heavy rucksack!
Here we are at the top!
Only a few miles left to go but it was going to be a LONG downhill!
CBC and I walked together. I banged my toes quite a few times on the downhill- it was very gravelly and very steep and progress was quite slow! J&S ended up quite a long way behind us.

Eventually we made it onto the main road in Horton, aiming for the pub to fetch my rucksack and to meet the taxi we had booked to take us to Hawes.  Originally, we would have camped in Horton and walked to Hawes the next day but because of the rest day, we would have to miss that day and make it up another time.
The taxi was booked for 6pm, we got there at 5.45pm. Where were J&S.
Just before 6, bag procured, they turned up.  J had twisted her ankle on the horrid downhill so she had to go very slowly.

The taxi arrived and drove us to Haws.It was an amazing drive- you got to see the Ribbleshead Viaduct and driving made me realise just how far we were supposed to have been walking the next day!

We arrived at our B&B in Hawes, Herriot's.  Ah, how welcome that shower was, how comfy that bed and duvet!

We had booked a table at Voujon, the Indian restaurant for dinner (it was Easter Sunday!).
After delicious poppadoms and chutneys, our main arrived. The menu had some really interesting dishes on it. I ordered a fish dish and CBC a prawn plus we shared rices, dhal and naans.
The prawn was too spicy for CBC so we swapped. We ate everything!
A discussion was had over dinner.  J realised she would not be able to cope with much downhill with her ankle, especially not with a rucksack but really didn't want to end their Pennine Journey there (CBC and I were due to end at Hawes as we were only there for 4 days of walking but the others were supposed to end in Teesdale). They decided to try and get a taxi back to Horton and do the 12 mile walk the next day which only had minimal downhill. We would meet for breakfast and then CBC and I would go and get the Little White Bus to Garsdale station and they would get their taxi.

After an excellent night's sleep and a tasty breakfast, We said goodbye to the others and went to get the bus. This is a community-run minibus that is there to serve the village of Hawes to link to train departures and arrivals at Garsdale station 6 miles away.
The bus only cost us £2 each due to a current government scheme that reduced all buses to only £2 a journey. The driver was really friendly and informative. He told us that not as many people use the bus as they don't know about it, so if you ever go there, it's really worth using! You can also charter it to do your own journeys during the middle of the day.

Garsdale station was beautiful!

 The train came and it took us to Leeds, via lots of little stations.  The journey was long but scenic (delayed though!).  At Leeds, we took another train back to Hebden Bridge


At Hebden, we walked back to the car! What a delight to change into some other clothes!
Now it was just a 4.5 hour drive back to Essex!


Maybe we will continue with the Pennine Way next year!

Things I learnt:
  • Cet a better air bed.
  • You need a midlayer, some sort of longsleeved layer to keep you warmer when you sleep. Only having a down jacket as my 'warm layer' was not enough
  • Merino wool base layers are brilliant!  They keep the sun off your skin and you don't feel the sweat so much as you would in cotton.
  • Waterproof trousers are a necessity
  • A good,breathable raincoat is crucial!
  • Do not carry a heavy bag. Get a lighter bag!
  • If you have any doubts about your walking boots, maybe get some new ones! I had had doubts about mine.
  • Suncream is always necessary. I was good with applying mine but some of the others weren't!
  • Water is heavy! Unless it is a really hot day, you probably don't need as much as you think!
  • Explore your rucksack carefully! You may discover sneaky snack pockets round your waist strap that would have been useful to know about before the last day!
  • Support Public transport! Use it or lose it! 
  • A nice packet of sweeties is worth having in your pocket
  • Get a lightweight hat and take it with you!
  • Having a buff is very useful- you can use it as a makeshift hat, hairband, scarf, a little bag etc
  • Bring sunglasses!
  • Earplugs may stop you from wanting to destroy the church clock!
  • Stop worrying about whether you are annoying other people. It makes a stressful situation worse!
  • Bring thick socks- they are good!
  • Consider a bag transfer service! Totally worth it!
  • B&Bs are really worth using on a long tiring trek!
  • Try to keep things dry
  • Walking poles are really helpful if struggle with hills
  • Reproof your waterproofs!

I'm sure I would think of other things.

Hope you enjoyed this epic!
xx